Some folks think that being a vixen is about landing a man or playing by the boy’s rules, but that really isn’t true. Being a sexy sassy vixen is simply an empowering way of life that many strong women adhere to. Strong vixen types do everything that other women do; they just do it with more style and pizazz. They aren’t wallflowers by a long shot, and people rarely forget their names. Being a vixen can be hard work, but the really sharp ones know how to make it look effortless, and now you can to.
The first rule of being a vixen is to always exude confidence. The more you have the more it shows. When a woman walks into a room looking fabulous with her head held high people notice her right away. Both men and women will immediately be drawn to this person because she radiates something beautiful from the inside as well as the out. If you lack confidence in general, try to get to the root of what is making you doubt your fierceness and get the hell over it. The world is always judging us for what we say and how we look, try not to adopt that mentality when you look at yourself. Just focus on what you like and what is encouraging. In doing this you’ll forget the negatives, and revel in the positives. And don’t be afraid to have an off day, if you can’t manage your confidence one day, just fake it.
The second rule of vixen-hood is to just be yourself. Sadly, sameness has become an admirable trait. The only upside to all of this conformity is that it makes it easier to set yourself apart from the pack. If you love your big luscious lips, wear some sexy red lip stick to show them off. If you can play an instrument go to an open mic night and play your heart out. Wear an outfit that really says something about your eye for fashion. These acts may not seem terribly bold, but in a world where women are valued for some characteristics and not others, a vixen proves she is in a class of her own by going her own way. Individuality shows gusto and spunk, and a vixen will always have both in spades.
Lastly is rule three, and that is to be a strong smart woman. Men love sexy women for sure, and they love vixens more because any conversation with one is always exciting. No you don’t have to be Albert Einstein to get your vixen on, but it is nice to know a little something about everything. Keep up to date with current events, figure out where your allegiances are politically and be willing to discuss your ideas. Proving how strong minded she can be only furthers the vixens sex appeal. If you have some topics in mind that you feel strongly about you’ll come off as smart sexy vixen every damn time.
The simple truth is that with practice and a little bit of style any woman can turn her world upside down and become a vixen. You can grab the world by the hand at make it your dance partner and you do whatever your little heart pleases. Being a vixen allows you to not only like who you are, but how you are, and nothing feels better than that. So go get your vixen on, the world needs more vixen types to shake things up.
Until next week South Coasters,
Keep it Sexy!
Brooke
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